Planning life to the very minute of the day, knowing what you should be doing, what time you should be doing it, how you should be doing it and with whom you should be doing it, ensures a kind of balance that gives feelings similar to the dopamine effect of pleasure and motivation.
But when plans fall through, trusted persons become undependable and loyalty wavers, crashing everything you planned out to dust rising so high that it becomes hard to see through the fog, can you look through the tears and look a little further?
A failed course? Look a little further to see yourself retaking it and performing better.
A failed project? Look a little further to see yourself using the knowledge and experience gained to restart or to do something entirely different.
A failed relationship? Now you know what you want and how you can be better.
Just look a little further through the mist.